Boy
oh boy, the bar has really been lowered on being passionate. This is what
happens when you make something compulsory. Remember a few years back when
everyone except Stephen Hawking was reading The
Secret and thought you had to think positively all the time or else the
universe would turn on you and poison your dogs or raid your petty cash box.
Well now, everyone is talking and walking passion speak.
“Live your inner passion and the rest will
take care of itself,” says Oprah, Uriah Heep Mountain Schemer and that Nobel
Laureate of Schmaltz – Paulo Coelho. Bullshit I say. The truth is that almost
no-one is paid to do what they are passionate about. If they were, Atlantic
Seaboard estate agents would be handing out their cards backstage at the Intimate Theatre or giving out
promotional hand jobs at jam sessions in Obs. I grew up passionately wanting to
be an international rugby player but I wasn’t big or aggressive enough and I
passed like a male hairdresser. Luckily I didn’t combine my passion with too
much persistence – that’s when gullible individuals really start haemorrhaging dreams.
Here’s
Paulo on reaching passionately for your dreams, "There is only one thing
that makes a dream impossible to achieve: the fear of failure." Very deep
P-Dawg. Where does this guy get his information - Forrest Gump seminars? And
all along I thought it was nature’s cruel distribution of talent and poverty
that were major sticking points for the dreamers of this world. But wait, if
what the Oracle of Mt. Platitude says is true, I’ll just have to listen to a
few Anthony Robbins tapes before I’m ready to head off to Hollywood to awaken
my giant within Penelope Cruz.
We
all have a working knowledge of what passion is and we all know we are using
the word too much. We are using it too much for the same reason that teenagers
in search of coolness wear mesh and foam baseball caps when only fifteen years
ago this brand of head-joy was donned by Klansmen after their meetings. Even
rough girls prefer mesh caps to weirdo suits. That is to say, we copy role
models. Oprah pretends to love Dostoevsky, so do the ladies of Graaff-Reinett.
Someone
started this passion fad. I don’t know if it was one person like Rhonda Byrne
who transformed weight loss into the daftest theory of cosmology (The Secret) since Genesis told us that
God made H2O before he made light. (Modern chemistry acknowledges
that you need light to fuse hydrogen and helium to make oxygen.) But Oprah
punted The Secret and, instantly,
hundreds of millions of women worldwide swallowed it whole without a moment of
critical thought. And why was that? Well I can hazard a guess. Stripped of its
feeble physics and selective quotations, the book claimed that you can have the
things you want if you really – one might say passionately - want them and then
it skipped out the hard work bit. That sounds nice. Wealth, love and
satisfaction for the price of a well-maintained dream board and some daily
manifesting or manuring or whatever you had to do. This was better than prayer because
God is so mysterious he very seldom answers and even Santa has a good conduct
clause.
Ok,
so everyone is being passionate about their passion and everyone who doesn’t
feel like they are following their passion is envious of those who are and wishes
they could stop being the H.R. manager at Dop System Papsak Wholesalers in
Paarl and go on the road with Die
Antwoord. What is so appealing about this fad passion that makes someone
say something as ridiculous as, “I’m passionate about sun downers on Camps Bay
beach,” or, “I’m passionate about Swiss chocolate?” These really are non sequiturs. Almost everyone likes
these things. If the net has been cast that wide, I suppose I am passionate
about orgasms and free drinks at weddings. I think that what appeals to people
about this wider definition of passion, outside the fact that it is
fashionable, is that it seems, like the implicit promise in The Secret, to do a magic act on good
old blood, sweat and tears.
You
don’t hear a lot about the passion involved in working ruinous hours at an
investment bank, nor how passionately the traders deal with the stress and
tension that come with the job. It is very hard work. But these are the people
who come calling on the estate agents for houses in Clifton one day. Perhaps
when they have retired and reconciled with the first family they sacrificed to
career, they can finally indulge their passion for remote location fly fishing,
which is also likely to involve hard work and dedication before any
satisfaction or reward makes an appearance.
Passion
is the leveraging of talent through incredible sacrifice, not downloading free
anarchist material and putting out a shitty strumming album every three years
from your Kalk Bay bedsit while bathing in the undeserved kudos of ordinary
people who have hobbies and dreams but have accepted they will never be a
Beethoven, Hemingway, Clapton or Izzard.